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More people are putting off parenthood, what will that mean for their kids ? - -

By Nona Willes Aronowitz

More people are putting off parenthood. What will that mean for their kids?

By Nona Willis Aronowitz, Published: July 6The Washington Post

When my 79-year-old father had two back surgeries a couple of years ago, I saw him in a hospital gown for the first time. As his closest family member my mother died of cancer in 2006 I gave my dad rides to the doctor and the grocery store. I helped him clean out his house and move into a smaller, stairless apartment. I watched him struggle at physical therapy. He has fully recovered, but the process aged him. Now I move a little slower when we walk down the street together. When he runs 20 minutes late, my imagination runs wild: Has he fallen or gotten into a car accident? Has he forgotten about our appointment? Oh, God, does he have Alzheimers? My father continually reminds me that he can fend for himself, but his protestations fail to dismantle the layer of worry that has set up camp in my brain. The parent-child roles have begun to reverse, like they have for so many baby boomers caring for their aging parents.

Except Im not a baby boomer. Im 27.